5 Daily Practices to Clear Your Mind of Mental Clutter

Summary: If traditional meditation, exercise and sleep don't do it, let's try these five daily practices that rely on your mental superpowers to clear mental clutter. Remove mental clutter, and allow space for what you really want.

Mental clutter can impact your ability to focus, make decisions, and maintain a sense of calm and balance. Clutter accumulates when you have new experiences and absorb new information. To keep your mind clear, understand the types below, followed by daily practices you can use to prevent ongoing clutter from taking over your mind.

Types of Mental Clutter

  • Unaddressed feelings and emotions can accumulate, causing mental congestion and emotional stress.

  • Excessive worry about future events or anxiety about uncertainties can occupy significant mental space.

  • Constantly criticizing oneself or engaging in negative self-talk can contribute to mental clutter.

  • Taking on too many responsibilities and tasks can lead to a scattered and cluttered mind.

  • The constant influx of information from digital devices, social media, and other sources can overwhelm the mind.

Here are five daily practices to clear your mind of mental clutter, starting now.

1. Put Away the “Busy Widgets”

The first place to look for mental clutter would be those things you do that aren’t tied to your goals. I like to call them “busy widgets.”

"Busy widgets" distract you from personal growth. Examples would be worrying, social media, binge tv watching, web research. You get the idea.

Take a look at what's on your plate and ask:

  • What's meaningful or important?

  • What am I looking forward to?

  • What's a "busy widget" I'm doing in place of the deeper work?

  • What event will drain my energy?

Watch out for busy widget distractions when you're avoiding the harder things in life. You might be avoiding or postponing dealing with difficult conversations and emotions. While avoidance or procrastination are actions you can take, they don't actually move you forward.

2. Put Pen to Paper

Try an easy practice with a pen and several sheets of paper. Give yourself permission to write what’s on your mind.

Think of this exercise as taking an inventory of all the major stories going on right now. Don’t worry about editing what you' write. Don’t worry about making it look nice. Put pen to paper.

Start with these writing prompts:

  • Write down what you’re repeatedly thinking about.

  • Write down the things you haven’t said.

  • Write out your to do list.

  • Write what you’re grateful for.

  • Write about what you’re tolerating.

  • Write about what you want to happen next.

Continue writing without lifting the pen until you feel you’ve written out what’s on your mind. When you’re done, check in with your awareness. When we hold too much temporary information in our minds at a time or worry about so many loose ends, it might be time to get the information out.

3. Welcome Your Emotions

We experience a wide range of emotions, but how often do we acknowledge them?

Recently, I faced challenges in my relationship with another parent at school. I felt disappointment, frustration, and even bitterness. Instead of addressing these emotions, I ignored them, causing them to build up. This made the relationship difficult.

I spoke to my coach about these feelings to better understand how to navigate them. By acknowledging the full range of my emotions, my feelings toward the relationship began to shift.

Welcoming your emotions means allowing yourself to fully experience negative feelings in order to release them. This practice can significantly improve how you manage both relationships and emotions.

By recognizing and accepting your emotions, you can better manage them and reduce the build-up of emotional clutter.

4. Let go

Every time I let go, something magical happens.

I’ve lost count how many times that’s been true. I learned this strategy when I was writing the book, Finding Passion.

Letting go of the past and the shame I felt allowed me to evolve.

It’s a choice, and not an easy one to step away from what you know (even if painful) and step towards what you want instead.

5. Intention and Attention

While we can’t stop the flow of so many thoughts at once, we can set powerful intentions.

Intentions are like a shortcut to getting what we want. When all else fails, set an intention and put your attention on that. Here’s a simple formula that keeps your eye on the prize.

  1. Set an Intention (“I intend to ….”)

  2. Take action

  3. Move forward

Both intention and attention can be an easy way to keep focused and put what’s important front and center in your mind and your actions.

Over-thinkers know how to stay with one idea for a long time. That part isn’t hard for you. We want to shift what it is that you’re locked onto. By removing the mental clutter, you allow space for well, anything!

Now that we learned the types of mental clutter and considered five daily practices, what’s possible for you now?

Enjoy the learning (you’ve got this!)

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